My ex-husband and I are very good friends. My ex and his girlfriend, and my current bo and I were all together on Christmas(night), playing games, hanging out, when my son caught my boyfriend and my ex-husband's girlfriend messing around in the bathroom. My son is more than old enough to know what he saw, and there is no question, that what he said happend did in fact happen. I know that alcohol had to play some part in it, but that is no excuse. I am usually a forgiving person, but this is something I do not think I could ever let go of. Should I even attempt to forgive him? Can I? How could he possibly do this to me? How could he do this to my kids? Is the saying" once a cheater, always a cheater" in fact true? I have no idea where to begin should I chose to try to forgive him. I am completely beside myself with this situation. I really need some guidance on what I should do or need to do.
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