I have been married almost 17 yrs. I found out 12/25/06 that my has was chesting. He has been cheating for 8 months. I only suspected the last 2 months. I kicked him out. I still love him and would like to fix this. He is still seeing her and says he doesn\'t know what he wants. She has all the advantages because she is with him every day and he only sees/speaks to me concerning our 2 girls or to get his stuff. A couple of my friends said I should date. Then he would see what he is losing. I am not sure. I wouldn\'t even know how to find someone to date. At the same time I don\'t want to be second best, which is what it seems like will happen. He wants to see if he can have a relationship with her before he makes any decisions. Then if it fails(it will) he would want to come back. I would be the consolation prize. I still don\'t understand how all this happened. I don\'t know if I should date. I do know that sitting around the house is not solving anything.
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