About a month ago my husband began a love affair with a 19 year old mentally handicapped girl who has genital warts. He said it was over when he confessed but it wasn't. He continued to she her and lie about where he was and what he was doing. A week after her confessed he came home late and in the morning when I woke up I saw that he had I love you written on his leg. I demanded to have access to his cell phone which he always kept locked. He gave it to me and I was horrified at what was on it. Once again he said he would end it. I manged to get access to his cell phone records by changing his security code and found that he was still calling her. I confronted him and he said he was just talking to her as a friend. I insisted that, that stop and his phone records indicate that it has. She still calls him but he doesn't answer. However I still catch him in little lies. Lies that don't make sense. If he tells the truth after i confront him the truth is better than the lie he told. If he'll lie about stupid little things should i believe the things he says to me that matter?
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