Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Well the husband has totally gone off on me. I was instant messaging him at work and calling his cell like normal but so is his friend who is home all day and he has reached his end of the rope with interuptions. I work in a relaxed atmosphere so I can do that stuff all day and still get work done but he is a teacher and cant have the computer and phone on all the time. Part of what he was supposed to be working on was cutting down on smoking pot and I started to talk to him about it on the phone and he hung up. Now theres a pissed off email from him about no more IM and cell phone and how he is sick and tired of it all how he wants peace and quiet. I feel kind of bad, should I apologize?
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
First of all, I don't think he would have been nearly as irritated with you had his friend also not been calling and whatnot all day. He might be taking some of his frustration out on you, which is understantable, but still not okay. He should talk to his friend as well and tell him to call after work next time.
Secondly, you know that your husband's job is different than yours and that he can't be answering his phone and talking to whenever during the day. I am confused as to why you felt the need to call him and start discussing him smoking pot while he was at work. I think that conversation belongs at home between you two and I don't blame him for hanging up. Both of my parents are teachers (actually my dad is a vice principal but he used to be and my mom is a teacher). Neither of them answer the phone unless it is an emergency because they can't talk during class. I know my dad would be MORE than angry is my mom called him to discuss something that wasn't important and that could have waited until at home. Therefore, an apoligy should be in order for that.
Im not sure how he doesnt have all this time if he had the time to write you a pissed off email either?
Stress can make people snappy. If he has asked in the past for you to not call him before or you are aware that he can't take calls, then stop calling. And yes, apologize.