My hubby and I have been having problems for a long time, and have been seeing a counselor as well as several different doctors. He was diagnosed with ADHD recently and is now being looked at for Aspergers. ANYWAY, he is the type of person to only be able to handle truth and consequences for only so long. Last month I told him I was afraid he would cheat just to have someone pat him on the head and tell him what a great guy he is so he didn't have to deal with the reality of the drama he has caused our family. Of course, he said he wouldn't do that.....well,obviously long story short he did, with someone who not only knows me but my children as well, now after I have found out, he is sorry, we are going to our priest and trying to find a marriage beyond this, she won't let go. He went to her with me to tell her in person what they did was wrong it never should have happened, and he needed to be happy and do what was right for his wife and children, so no more emails, no more contact leave me alone, that was a week ago tomorrow, already she has emailed him again with AGAIN I love you, we could be great together, etc....WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO RESPECT FOR A MARRIED MAN WITH A FAMILY AND THEIR WIVES???!!! We live in a really small town, I just ran into her last night, how does she look at herself in the mirror or sleep at night going after my husband, which I have also found out isn't the first time she's done something like this......I am so angry!
Posts You May Be Interested In
I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...