My wife cheated on me with an old boyfriend. The same guy who ruined her first marriage. We have went to counceling and that seemed to help me, for a while. I just can't get past it. I don't believe her. I check her email and phone messages and anything else I can. I feel like a snoop gone wild. I just can't believe her. She is trying to be cooperative when I go a little crazy with the checking. She says (it will never be enough) maybe she is right. Maybe I won't be able to get past this. I have asked her to close her email accounts and change phone numbers. Is that unreasonable? She travels for work so, she is away from home a lot and my suspicions are magnified during those periods. I am starting to resent her for making me feel this way. I can't understand how someone could do this to another. I just don't have the stomach for the deception and lying. She ended her first marriage with an affair and left out that information when we got together. If this marriage breaks up and I look for a new partner, I will make damn sure it is a cheatee and not a cheater. It seems we are all either cheaters or people who were cheated on. How sad.
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