She had an affair I found out she continued for 3 months after and still works at same place with the other piece of crap. She is always angry and says it my fault because I keep reminding her of what she did. She says she is not happy and always threatens to divorce but never follows through. I have know trust she still works with him and wont change shifts she says nothing is going on but I dont trust her(she does talk to him about work). She says I have to stop this so she can start getting thoughs feelings back for me. It is so retarded She cheats and i have to get over it or her anger wont go away. Oh ya she does not know if thoughs feelings will come back either.She says by her being here she is trying. I am so tired of this feeling like secound rate I am afraid to break my family up but maybe she need to lose everything for once and see exactly what she has done!!!
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