Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
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One of the books I read spoke of a "severance package" although she did not call it that.
She suggested... if you partner cheats AND... you decide to stay...there should be some kind of parachute to use, in the future, if it happens again. This should apply even more to multiple cheaters.
I now have a checking account in my name only. I am in the process of establishing credit in my name only. All of the money that I earn in my part time job will go to my account. A portion of my husbands income will also go to my individual account.
In the past our incomes were merged and we paid bills, went out etc from one acct. Of course the OW was wined and dined from this acct also, unbeknownst to me at the time.
The money my husband is contributing is partly to repay me for that! Partly to allow me the freedom to leave his ass, without fanfare, if I ever catch him even sniffing around in the direction of another woman!
My husband sees it like this. Since he is certain he will never cheat again. Then at some point, many years from now, we may decide to spend it together. He is happy to do this as he knows that I could not stay unless I have the security, to leave if I ever need to.
What do you all think? I think we should all cover our..selves in case an irresistable fat slut crosses their path again, so that we dont have to deal with all of those details as well as the pain.
One of the books I read spoke of a "severance package" although she did not call it that.
She suggested... if you partner cheats AND... you decide to stay...there should be some kind of parachute to use, in the future, if it happens again. This should apply even more to multiple cheaters.
I now have a checking account in my name only. I am in the process of establishing credit in my name only. All of the money that I earn in my part time job will go to my account. A portion of my husbands income will also go to my individual account.
In the past our incomes were merged and we paid bills, went out etc from one acct. Of course the OW was wined and dined from this acct also, unbeknownst to me at the time.
The money my husband is contributing is partly to repay me for that! Partly to allow me the freedom to leave his ass, without fanfare, if I ever catch him even sniffing around in the direction of another woman!
My husband sees it like this. Since he is certain he will never cheat again. Then at some point, many years from now, we may decide to spend it together. He is happy to do this as he knows that I could not stay unless I have the security, to leave if I ever need to.
What do you all think? I think we should all cover our..selves in case an irresistable fat slut crosses their path again, so that we dont have to deal with all of those details as well as the pain.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I don't know that I like the idea of having 2 accounts and having a joint account - again, that allows the cheater the freedom to spend whatever he/she wants and get away with it, UNLESS (another condition) you request copies of each month's bank statements.
My H and I have done better with a joint account than we ever did with separate ones - of course, he isn't spending HUGE amounts of money on motel rooms, either!