
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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I have recently found out that my husband has been unfaithful to me.
We have had a rough ride in the last couple of years. I have forgiven him numerous time for not pulling his weight in our relationship, for breaking his promises, for hurting me physically when he had lost it during some awful rows.
I have been the breadwinner in the relationship and have supported his decision to quit work to go back to studying. But he had not been putting his heart in it and I feel really alone, facing the world and carrying the load on my own.
Now I feel extremely hurt and confused after I found an email he sent to an escort. One minute I want to give this marriage another chance, the next minute I don't know whether I would ever be able to get over this / forget his words in the email & whether he would ever change (not just regarding the infidelity).
Is there anyone out there willing to share their experience on either getting a divorce or getting back together to make the marriage work?
(all advice / sharing will be gratefully received. Please note that I may not be able to respond frequently as I do not have easy internet access at the moment)
Thank you all very very much
We have had a rough ride in the last couple of years. I have forgiven him numerous time for not pulling his weight in our relationship, for breaking his promises, for hurting me physically when he had lost it during some awful rows.
I have been the breadwinner in the relationship and have supported his decision to quit work to go back to studying. But he had not been putting his heart in it and I feel really alone, facing the world and carrying the load on my own.
Now I feel extremely hurt and confused after I found an email he sent to an escort. One minute I want to give this marriage another chance, the next minute I don't know whether I would ever be able to get over this / forget his words in the email & whether he would ever change (not just regarding the infidelity).
Is there anyone out there willing to share their experience on either getting a divorce or getting back together to make the marriage work?
(all advice / sharing will be gratefully received. Please note that I may not be able to respond frequently as I do not have easy internet access at the moment)
Thank you all very very much
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