Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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Rumor Mill

deleted_user
deleted_user
When the rumor mill at work says that someone is cheating, is it usually true?
deleted_user
deleted_user
There may be some truth to it, but there may be nothing to it. I guess it depends on who is saying it and why. But, gossip is just gossip unless you have some proof.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well, my husband admitted to the physical and emotional attraction, admitted to having lunch every day and telling her things he can't tell me..... and got mad over the rumors insisting they were "just friends"
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well, then. If he's not doing it, he's placing himself in a very good situation to do it. And, if there are rumors about it, then the workplace is being affected. If he's smart, he'll stop. If he loves you, he'll stop. But, I think you said you've left him, right?
Garrison
Garrison
Sometimes, but not all of the time, workplace rumours hold truth.

The important things is the other signs that you can see - if there are other signs other than talk about it, then do not ignore the talk.
deleted_user
deleted_user
yes, I left. I won't go back. For some reason I want to resolve all this issues with the fact that he cheated. I heard in his voice when he talked about her that he had feelings and I saw it in the way he acted. I know what I need to know but it bothers me that he continued to lie and at the end wouldn't just tell the truth.
deleted_user
deleted_user
at my job everyone is sleeping with someone they aren't or on drugs. There are a select few that like to start this drama so we just all ignore it now.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Usually, yes. At least there is an ounce of truth to it. People look at each other a certain way, when they have shared a secret, or been intimate with each other. Other people see that and pick up on it.

Usually the only thing you have to be careful about are people who start rumors just to see drama.
jimmysquirrel
jimmysquirrel
never believe a rumor... now, if someone SAW something happen, then that is no longer a rumor now is it?
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