Well....... rumor has it around H's social club that I go to his meetings ( I do not go to all of them, but to most of them) to keep an eye on him. NO! I DON'T go for that reason. If I wanted to keep an eye on him I would have started going when I first had my suspicions. I do go now and i will continue to go to as many as I can because I want to and H asks me to go with him. I've discussed it with him and H doesn't care what people think . The bimbo has not come to any meetings lately. Did I run her away from something she lives for and enjoyes very much???? If so, God it feels great!!!!

I do want the bimbo to get to her head that I am a constant and very imprtant presence in my husband's life because she forgot it the moment I could not join him for a while due to my work.

There is an important meeting tomorrow evening and I was invited by one of the VIPs of the club to attend. I explained to him that H will be out of town and also that I am not a member. He made it a point to come up to me three times and invite me and he said he won't accept NO for an answer. So I am going tomorrow. So let the idiots at the club wonder WHO on earth am I keeping an eye on tomorrow? Our older son and H are going away for the weekend to help the school district with a project. So I am going by myself. Maybe this will shut them up.

My friend advised me to make sure I sit next to this VIP man during the meeting and esp. if the bimbo shows up. To let her see that people like me and they do not believe the garbage she is dishing out portraying me like the raving jealous bitch of the century. I plan to do just that: sit next to him if possible.

I am planning a big day tomorrow: I'll drive H to son's place, then I will go have lunch with a lady from H's social group, then out shopping for a dress for son's wedding, then to the meeting, and then out to dinner either by myself or with someone from the group. Looking forward to a great day.