Well this is a risky one..I work as a bartender on the weekends that I dont have my kids and I see people come in there as I live in a tiny little town and with the regulars we discuss current events and such..like the guy with 30 wives. Anyway I have 2 women who come in there to vent... as we all know bartenders are sometimes counselors. The one lady is a lady that comes in has been married for like 28 years or soemthing like that and COMPLAINS everytime I see her about her cheating husband in which I also know very well as I work with him at my day job and we all live in the same tiny town..so yeah I know his rep as he has personally told me a good majority of it. He has a illigitmate child he had while married and has had at least 8 girlfriends during this marriage..so 2 weeks ago the wife came in and asked if he had been in there with any girls as she suspects him cheating yet again...this lady is gorgoeus and i am not even joking so maybe I was in a bad mood, maybe I was fed up with the same story or maybe I just dont understand...So this is what I said to her and I am pretty sure I would say close to the same thing again..I told her she was gorgoeus and I was at a loss to whether she hated herself or if she was just stupid (yeah I know harsh)I told her I could maybe understand the 1st time (I know I couldn't but being her) and ya know MAYBE JUST MAYBE the 2nd time as they married really young and whatever but Jeez when does it come to the point where it is your own fault for being stupid..you know it is happening you know it obviously will never change as it hasn't in the last 20+ years. I told her she deserved better and should look into some couseling because she is blinding herself or something. Was it wrong of me to tell her that she must hate herself to allow this to happen?? I am at a loss why do men/women continue to let this happen over and over again...when is enough finally enough? What makes you stay when it happens over and over and over? I just don't understand. I don't think anyone deserves to be cheated on but I have really come to a loss here as to why this lady keeps singing the same tune, I really don't feel sorry for her anymore..dies that make me a bad person??
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