
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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Is it just me or does anyone else think this is a problem. My H was talking to another woman for about 3 weeks. Nothing really came of it. He was supposedly just trying to be her friend. Well after I found out and went off the deep end and we discuss the problems in our marriage that were there before this happened.. =Things seem better alot....however, my mind cannot get it out of my head that he gave her something that was mine. Now as I hurt everyday and can't quit thinnking about this, it seems that he gets rewarded. he gets a better wife, a better marriage, and a better sex life....how does this seem fair. I mean where is our reward for sticking around and putting up with this shit. I guess pain is our reward????
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your reward should be the same as his - a better husband, a better marriage, and a better sex life.
a marriage is only as strong and as fulfilling as your mutual level of communication.
it sounds like he feels he got his hand slapped for having it in the cookie jar and having done the sorrowful sad sack routine he can go back to his normal routine. and he can go back to his normal routine because you're letting him.
you're putting yourself out there and that means he has nothing to complain about.
you do not have to accept a sub-standard relationship.
you do not have to accept less than you want.
you do not have to accept the pain.
you can stand up.
you can shout out.
you can demand he look you in the eye and listen to your pains and help you resolve them.
you have choices - about what you will and will not accept and what you do and do not want.
make them and then tell him. if he cannot or will not acknowledge your needs and wants, if he cannot or will not understand your pain, if he cannot or will not help soothe your hurting...you do not have to accept him.
SAY NO TO PAIN!
coo-coo-ka-choo!