I am about 8 months from discovering my H affair. This has really done a number on me emotionally. About three to four months back I felt as though things were starting to get back to somewhat normal conversation, a bit better in our love life. For the last month or two though I have taken a massive swing to the bitter and resentment side. Nothing new has happened or come up. I have a difficult time talking to him, especially on the phone, I constantly work his affair into all conversations, I sometimes have a difficult time making love to him, and overall I get feeling of I doubt if I should have ever married him. Has anyone else had these types of swings or are these signs of a marriage going downhill? I am really scared and I am not sure where to turn. My therapist has asked if I can be ok being married to someone who has done this. I don't know? Does this bitterness and resentment end, fade???
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