I am new here and am hoping this community will help me. I found out 2 weeks ago that my husband has been having an affair for 2 1/2 years off and on, in my house and also while I was pregnant with our son. He stays home with him 3x a week and would have her over while my son was napping. He had an affair with this women before he knew me which I did not know about when I married him. He is an emotionless person to begin with and never gave me the communication, affection, or attention I needed. Is there really any reason to consider NOT filing for divorce immediately? I know i will never forgive him for doing this to me and my son. also i guess I am naieve but did not realize that affairs went on for this long of a period. does anyone else have similar stories so I don't feel so alone. he says he does not want to be with her (she is married with children also) and I am so confused why he would do this for such a long time. any help or advice is greatly appreciated. i feel very alone right now. Thank you.
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