I am new to this website and thought I'd give it a go. I am a mother of 3 beautiful children and a wife of 13 years. I have not had the best luck with my spouse as far as fidelity goes. It goes as far back as when we were dating. But to make a very long story short I found out my husband had been cheating on me with our daughter's godmother . She was engaged to my husband's best friend at the time. They were having problems in their relationship and so was my husband and I. Apparently they started consoling one another instead of talking things out with their partners. I will freely admit I have alot of trust issues as far as my husband goes but I am trying to let things go and make our marriage better. I wanted to do marriage counseling but my husband said that all it will do is just bring stuff back to the surface kind of like scratching an old wound. Maybe he is right but I just really need someone to talk to about these things because it is driving me insane. How do you let these things go to move forward? If anyone has any comments or helpful hints on how to leave the past in the past I would really appreciate it.
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