Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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"workin on it"

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For all you cheaters out there who were lucky eneough to have a spouse that gave you that miracle of a second chance I hope you ate good and kicked yourself in the nuts like I do everymorning. And all you Humiliated and betrayed spouses that took gave us bastards that chance to show you our love and prove that some of us can learn from our mistakes......GOD BLESS YA!!! I am thankful for each and everyone of you who had the courage to throw the forgiveness card (your heart) on the table. Everyone that gave me the advice and the , AHEM! stern talking to I love you too. God bless and I paray that everything works out and WE all never have to come back here again ......except to say hi and stuff.
ChiTownBear
ChiTownBear
glad to hear you will be working things out. I hope it bodes well for the both of you.
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you're reply was "workin on it"
how are you really trying to do that?
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It is so helpful to hear that you appreciate your wife giving you another chance. My husband & I are trying to work things out too. Sometimes I ask myself am I the only fool out there doing this for "us" I hope it works for you guys. Please keep me posted. The very best of luck. You know I do believe it is not always the cheater being unhappy with his marriage or wife (or husband)that makes him cheat. I am now starting to see that some peole are just selfish and need an ego boost and having a whore responsed to them does just that.
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On Thanksgiving morning, before I could get out of bed my H held me and told me "I am thankful for you, and a second chance" with tears in his eyes. I never dreamed I would be able to try and forgive something this big. We have a long way to go.
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Soinlove,

Thanks for that. We, the betrayed, are so uncertain, as to whether or not our marriages are salvagable. It is nice to hear that somone who was given a 2nd chance, can appreciate it.

I know, now, that my husband loves me and appreciates the opportunity to show me. I fear that the weakness, selfishness and entitlement that motivated him to think he could become involved with somone else, suggests, even proves, that he will not be faithful to me in the future.

Please, if you have any understanding of the process of recovery from the cheater's side, share this freely.

As you may have noticed, if you have read these posts, WE do not understand how somone could choose adultury and still love, much less be trustworthy, in any way. Our hearts are just not built that way.
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