My fiance, who is currently in jail, admitted to me about a month ago she had an affair with her ex-boyfriend while we were living together. Here is my problem though. Not only am I humiliated and hurt by her actions I've just realized that I am rubbing her nose in it by telling her how hard it is for me to remain faithful to her while she's locked up. Can anyone tell me if this is normal to do? I just realized today after talking to her that I was doing it. Am I trying to make her feel as hurt and humiliated as I am for her actions? What can I do for myself to stop doing it?
Posts You May Be Interested In