Hello, I am going thru a painful divorce. STBX is involved an affair since March she doesn't know I know. In April, she said she wants to separate. I filed for divorce in June, but started the process shortly after. She has a secret cell phone I supposedly don't know about. She was with him last night after dropping off our youngest at a friends and got home after 12:15am. We are still residing in teh same residence. I am beside myself and can't sleep, eat, etc. I know in my mind it is over, I filed. I just can't seem to get past the hurt of being betrayed a second time, and her convincing herself, our family and friends, that she's a victim in this whole thing. I need advice on how to simply let her be and do what she wants. It is hard biting my tongue but atty. advises I don't ever say anything until court time, he'll handle it. I should feel o.k. about this, but is still screwing my world up. Professionally I am a mess. Personally, I am a mess. I need to figure a way out of this horror I am living. Please help!
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