Go for it,,it is the right place and the right time!
Hugs to you,, but I have a question for you... Are you actually considering going back to him after all of this?

Up until this happend I would have tried to work things out, now that his girlfriend is trying to be me...hell NO!!! She will NEVER be me or a mother to my babies. They are MINE! I AM SELFISH! LOL!

Sorry for all of this pain you are being force fed. This is just awful. Really, could he be anymore inconsiderate and uncaring? What baffles me is how people can just chuck their kids away for the OW or OM???? What is up with that anyway???? I really don't have words here other than, get you and your kids as far from him as possible. Toxic. I won't even start on his whore. You had to live with her????? OMG, you are a far stronger woman than I. I can't even look at a pic of the OW without going into a temporary state of turettes. Hang in sweetie. I'm here if you need to vent. God Bless. Some people are just better off far away from you, far far away. Is deportation an option?

I say get a lawyer and clean his clock for him. As for her? Make SURE you document everything and witnesses would be good too. My poor brother has gone through something similar and his ex is with an aryan who was just released from prison. He has NO business in the lives of my neices but so far the courts aren't doing a damn thing because there isn't enough proof. I urge you to get as much proof as possible. Good luck!

AprilDawn my dear you are one hell of a woman to go through that crap. I would have been in prison for murder by now. Get yourself and the kids out of dodge. And keep a notebook of every detail dealing with both of them. Write everything down. The phone calls and anything else that happens. And subpeona the teacher too if you have to. I feel for you my friend and wish you the best. You deserve so much better than this. What a Crock of Shit!! God Bless you for your strength.

Sweety I have an 8 year old and it LITERALLY DESTROYS the children...however YOUR MORE AT FAULT AT THSI POINT. Please explain to me why YOU ALLOW an man that abandoned you and his kids to tell you TO YOUR FACE that he's done with screwing around with the junkie...so I guess I'll have you back...ooooh on 2nd thought never mind. I am not being mean but THE BALL IS IN YOUR COURT...he has SHOWN you that he's a filthy pig...and you dealing with him back and forth will surely destroy any and all esteem your daughters have. It's obvious your has faded long ago. You need to steer clear of him for a while....YOU FOCUS on addressing the issues with your child cause he has SHOWN that he could care less. His mind is not on being a father with morals at this time. AND YOU SHOULD REALLY BE ASHAMED OF ALLOWING A MAN WHO ISN'T EVEN THE FATHER BRING THIS TYPE OF STRESS INTO HER LIFE. That means your putting YOURSELF and YOUR feelings 1st in lieu of the child. Get your cat together. Go stay with family or friends who are willing to lend you a bed for a while. DO NOT CONTACT this mean cause he's like a cancer. Are you working and able to provide for yourself? If so work hard and get things going for yourself, and focus on helping that child. Also I'm not sure how old she is but you better be very careful as to your parenting skills before DFACS get wind of what going on and take her away. And 9 out of 10 the teacher will contact them if she suspects something is wrong in that house hold. Her concern is the child as yours should be. Let that garbage go (CURT)...now truth be told and no offense to you but just from thsi brief discription of the happenings in your life...it sound like a a bunch of low life trailer Jerry springer garbage...don't drag your INNOCENT child thru this. If she is older enough to understand..sit her down, 1st tell her you love her with all your being, that you are dealing with some bumps in the road, but are there for her and you need her maturity and support so that BOTH of you can make it thru. If she loves that piece of trash you allowed into her life, kindly explain to her that right now you guys are having issues that will not allow you guys to deal with each other at this time and your working on correcting the problem so that everyone can have peace and happiness. It may hurt a little but she'll understand, wrap your arms around her as often as you can while you are talking to her and REASSURE her of your love for her. AS afr MISS BETTY...honey NO EXCUSES..THERE ARE LAWS...go to the magistarte office tell them that you want to file a protective order against her, tell the judge that her harrasssing is causing a stressful reaction in your child and they will grant it. If she calls you, your family, your friend, text you, rides past your house, or comes near your child her ass goes to jail. Also let them know about her drug use...they don't play when it comes to kids and this type of environment. You owe that child the feeling of safety. This is only if you REALLY love her and want better for her. And if you dare go back to a man that treats you like a common whore and kicks you out on the street along with your baby as if she's old socks..you will surely destroy that child and make her think less of you as a woman. Oh and as for Curt..he now knows he can treat you like shit on the bottom of a shoe cause he does and you accept it. So why should he treat you any different, when you seem to keep coming back for more? Wake up honey...be smarter than your acting like you are.

I read the bottom part again and you guys really need to get your acts together...you are more at fault because you keep dealing with this trailer trash!!!! You didn't have anybody else that could come get you...I mean really. Not one dang friend or family member? This reminds me of actions of these women out her that allow men to molest thier kids cause she loooooved him. WAKE UP MISS!!!!!! They are pure garbage!!!!!!!! Keep them away from your kids that's IF you really care and let me WARN YOU...if DFACS get's wind of any of this they take your kids, place them in foster care, and believe me when I say 90% of foster parents only care about the $$$$$$ they get for taking in your child. Statistics show alot of kids that are atking in by fosters are abused, raped, and sometimes murdered. You laid down and had these kids...BE A MOTHER and get the hell away from that CANADIAN TRAILER TRASH AND YOUR EX...MY GOD WHAT IS WRONG WITH SOME OF YOU PEOPLE!!!! POOR POOR KIDS...and that baby...I have got to pray!!!!

Call the schools, daycare, whatever his name is on and have him removed from Abagail's record to be contacted. You can do that. I did.

Call a pro bono association to file for custody against him. he has no right to abagail unless he did not adopt her. But file it for the son anyways, and the daughter if they feel you have to. And have them file support for you. Actually, you can do that yourself without a lawyer.

And, sue him for alimony while you are at it and NEVER take him back.