ful....why? Not to judge, so please understand that I am really looking for some ways to communicate that are productive. I feel like since it has been a year since "it" and we are in counseling (where we talk about communication and goals, we don't refer to "the affair")and we actually do pretty well, that the unsaid message I get from him is I should get over it, he is working very hard with me for us to be a better couple, yet I sometimes want to express my anger or lack of self-esteem or want him to better understand the impact of the whole situation, even now, after this amount of time has passed. And not to make him feel bad, but to express myself and get him to better understand me. I have never thought he fully understood the impact, how can I get him to without him thinking I am just slamming him? I really want to talk to someone who has been on the husband side of this situation and get some feedback as to what is helpful and what sounds like a scorned wife being a bitch just to be a bitch!!!!
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