
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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Background- So my H and I lived separately 2 months, I had with trust for him. (Relocated...) One day he told me that he checked his old email (the one he used for the OW) and some X had emailed him and he had emailed a different X and that is was no big deal oh, and that he had set up a myspace acct (also his big thing with the OW). I told him close down his accounts that it is too much of a worry for him to be having secrets online since that is what happened before. So he closed the myspace but the email you have to not use it for 6 months or whatever... so no more check that email. We have a family account and I don't see why all his emails can't go through there! Anyways he told me his boss sent some pictures of him at his new job and he was going to show our son. He checked his email for the pictures. Whatever, I didn't look at them we were about to leave. So today I thought well hey I'd like to see the pictures. So I go into his email, my email,our family email... not there anywhere. Hmmm, I check the history on the computer HOTMAIL!?!?!?! WTF is hotmail doing in the history. So his password is different and he isn't answering his phone to give me the password. I'M FREAKING OUT. So many old emotions are coming up and I'm about to go to church and AHHHH I can hardly breathe. I don't think he is having an affair but who knows why he would give his boss his old email when he knows i don't want him to use it. I'm not being controlling it's a step we decided on for building trust. What is going on??????
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I can imagine the panic going on in you right now.
I don't have any answers for you, but it sounds like you have a lot to sort out here.
But try to calm down at least until you talk to him and find out what he has to say.
Good luck, I am praying for you.