I believe I was the other woman. I didn't know it for a long time. He promised me marriage and family, etc. However, once I find out about her and their new baby together, he told me all about her. I knew everything from where she lived, her phone number, where she worked, her family, history, etc. etc. He said he only hung out with her because of the baby and he didn't want to pay child support. (Loser all around.) However, he still took her out on dates or to a hotel and he was over there way too late at night. He insisted he wasn't having sex with her, but I'm not that stupid. Anyways, I found him there late one night and called him out on it. He said I was crazy and denied that our relationship ever existed. Since that time, he has tried to get back with me 3x...roses, dinner, promises, the whole nine yards. Just this weekend, he was supposed to move back in with me. (Don't know what I was thinking.) But anyways, I got stood up and caught him with her again. I called her house and told her dad that he was a cheater. I went to the cheater's house and smacked him around with the dozen red roses he bought me the night before. And to top it all off, I made copies of all the letters, cards, cel phone bills, and the emotional abuse court case against him and I sent them to her in the mail. On one hand, I believe he needs to be exposed. He is only using and manipulating her too. On the other hand, I feel a little guilty. I fear retalliation. Anyone else ever expose a cheater to the OW? What happened?
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