Ever notice the person who cheats focuses on all the bad things in a marriage and the betrayed person remembers all the good? We are both wrong. It's so hard when you have been rejected to own up to anything you did wrong in a marriage because nothing you did compares to what the cheater has done. (Unless you are being beaten, I guess). The view the cheater has of how bad things were so that they can deal with their guilt is so enraging, though!
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