I have been reading everyone's post for about a year now and I am ready to "chime" in for any advice you can give me. I am one year out from d-day and my heart still breaks today. Here is my brief story: My wife of 19 years had an emotional affair with a co-worker. I was blindsided when she sat me down to confess. Although she admitted to kissing him and letting him touch her she claimed she never touched him or completely slept with him. I am not naive and would have never believed her but I happened to read his text messages and e-mails practically begging her to sleep with him. Of course, he said that if she would have it would be the best sex ever and she would never return to me. She broke it off completely, quit her job and has given me 100% access to any phone or e-mail accounts if I wish. She is doing everything and anything to save our marriage and I am so grateful for that, but yet there are days when I trigger and feel so, so, so hurt. Somedays I am just so broken. I don't mean to discourage others who are trying to reconcile as I know my situation could have been a lot worse. But will it get better? How can I focus on us now and move forward? Any help, insight, suggestions, etc. are appreciated. Thanks everyone.
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