Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I am having a terrible time with the one year anniversary. I didn't know it would be the hard. I have had a hard time for the whole year, but it hit me like all over again. On the exact date, I didn't come home that night. I worked during the day and made plans for the evening.
That day wasn't as bad as the last 4 days have been that followed Yesterday, I went to my dr for my annual visit. She said I HAD to go on anti depressants. I tried them before, but had so many problems with them and my therapist at the time said I was depressed with a one time event and it wouldn't help. They only help for clinical depression.
So- I started them again last night. I woke up during the night with terrible body shaking that lasted about 35 min. My whole body shook.
My friend thats an RN, said that's the bodies way of shutting down.
I felt like my head was going to blow off and my heart literally hurt like it was being cut out of my body. Today I have a head ache and stomach problems. I am so angry at my husband to have to go thru all this.
He wishes he could take it from me, but not possible. He had an affair w/ his secretary that lasted 1 &1/2 yrs, 13-15 yrs ago. WHY, WHY, WHY did he have to tell me now, married 46 yrs. If I didn't know then and it was over, why now?
That day wasn't as bad as the last 4 days have been that followed Yesterday, I went to my dr for my annual visit. She said I HAD to go on anti depressants. I tried them before, but had so many problems with them and my therapist at the time said I was depressed with a one time event and it wouldn't help. They only help for clinical depression.
So- I started them again last night. I woke up during the night with terrible body shaking that lasted about 35 min. My whole body shook.
My friend thats an RN, said that's the bodies way of shutting down.
I felt like my head was going to blow off and my heart literally hurt like it was being cut out of my body. Today I have a head ache and stomach problems. I am so angry at my husband to have to go thru all this.
He wishes he could take it from me, but not possible. He had an affair w/ his secretary that lasted 1 &1/2 yrs, 13-15 yrs ago. WHY, WHY, WHY did he have to tell me now, married 46 yrs. If I didn't know then and it was over, why now?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
My heart goes out to you.
we havent been together for the past for months and ive recently cut off all contact with him and i have to admit it is making things ALOT easier for me... im not suggesting you do the same but just letting you know that this worked for me.
Take care. xox