I'm so mad at my H right now that I can't hardly stand him. It's been almost 8 months since d-day. Since I found out our sex life has been on and off to say he least. Off on his part. I felt like I needed him more after I found out. Now when I ask for it, it's like I'm pushing him. He says he needs to take it at his own pace and for me not to pressure him. I don't think he is still involved with anyone. Just not sure that this is where he wants to be. If it wasn't for the kids and his parents (both of which don't know), I think he would have checked out. Maybe this would have been a good idea at first, just to see if we wanted to try again after being apart, but now we're already in it trying to make it work. Told him today I would not ask anymore, it would have to come from him. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one trying to make it work. He thinks because he is still here that he is trying too. Has anyone else had this problem?
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