Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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ONe Good Things

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One good thing about infidelity and the emotional pain it causes is the weight loss. I went from 227 to 202 in 9 weeks. Doesnt look bad, I must say! :)
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thats great
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I hear you! This is really sick....I wish I would catch him cheating again so maybe I could lose the weight again. What is wrong with me? I know I am living in crazy town!
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Ive lost 30lbs ad my self esteem
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I should add that if I caught him cheating again I would hope that I would have the strength to leave. It's like a fantasy....I catch him then leave him and lose weight and be happy.
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Yeah the weight loss is great, just be careful. I've lost 23 lbs in two weeks and can't manage to keep anything down now. My Dr. is having a fit
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Lol so I am not the only one! I call it the Affair diet. Im down from 196 to 170. Love the weight loss, hate the cause.
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I'm trying really hard NOT to go on the infidelity diet as most people tell me I'm skinny enough. I think I'm doing alright with that. I'm starting to crave junk food though, so I don't know, I suppose I could actually GAIN a lot of weight if I ate as much of it as I wanted too. LOL.

I've heard of another type of diet - the breakup diet. One woman said she lost 250 lbs. in one day. ;)

It is good that there is a positive benefit even in something like infidelity. Maybe in the long run, there will be other positive benefits. Like greater emotional strength, learning to love ourselves like never before, etc.

I wish you all the best.
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