My h called our daughter yesterday, and went on and on how much he misses everything, his dog, his house, me, our daughter, and told her "you have no idea." I know it is to get to me, or if karma has struck(which Im hoping) but I never thought the no contact would make him yearn for his old life, I actually thought it would bring him and his whore closer. I guess a narcissist doesnt like rejection and cant stand not to have his old supply, me. Im just hoping he is miserable, knowing he is now stuck with a controlling, demanding whore, whom we all know he can't possibly love, it he is a true narcissist. I know I fret that he loves her and she could be the love of his life, but my intellect says he bit off way more than he could chew. and he is completely unable to love anyone. maybe the honeymoon phase is not constant, maybe it comes and goes with him, as his moods change so often. maybe just maybe he realized moving in with her turned their secret fantasy into a horrific reality. I refuse to contact him, I dont want to see him because it would only hurt me more, i know his ways, his lies, his i want you etc...i don't love her, i regret this.....etc but in my heart i am praying he is absolutely miserable with her and their time together will end very soon. someone tell me, please, that he will move on from her and that he was and always will be a miserable piece of shit, and more miserable with a woman who has a leash around his neck, not one like me, who allowed him to be himself and have the freedom he needed to breathe any thoughts????
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