Tonight I went on a wild goose chase trying to find my husband. He told me he was staying with a friend from work. I called his cell phone several times and he never returned my call. Finally, I called the friend whose house he was supposedly staying at Wednesday, Thursday and tonight. Well he was only there Thursday night. Where was he Wednesday and tonight I asked. His friend said he did not know. I now know he is still involved in an affair with the OW and has no intention of trying to work it out with me. If he was he would have called me and told me exactly where he was staying. He still has not returned my phone call. He is supposed to be coming home tomorrow to spend time with the kids. So... I have a friend from out of town staying with me and trying to help me with the kids and help me get through this and when i returned home from my wild goose chase, we gathered all of his shit (clothes, shoes, toiletries, etc.) and threw it in the back yard. We packed up stuff for the kids and me and anything that is of value to me and we are leaving first thing in the morning before he gets home. He does not deserve this family. He is a low life lying cheating scumbag. I do not deserve to be treated like this. I will not wait on him while he continues to screw this skank, lie about it and blame me for it. Please keep me in your thoughts. I do not know where I will go from here or what is around the corner for me, but I am scared to death.
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