I found out during Thanksgiving my husband has been having an affair for a year and a half with my ex sister in law. We have started counseling, but I feel it doesn't help us because he is out of town working while I go, so we have been twice while I have been about 6 to 8 times. My feeling are really mixed up because I want to work things out but then the next day I am so angry and hurt I want a divorce. I don't feel he shows much of anything to let me know he wants to be here for the right reasons. I will ask him if he really does love me and he will say I am here aren't I. He tells me that he just wants to move on and have fun together. I really feel if he would show me that he truly is sorry for what he did and really shows me he loves me then I feel things could go the right way. I just get upset and really don't understand that when I want to talk about what he did he gets mad at me and tells me if that is all we are going to talk about and if I keep on dwelling on it then we will never work it out. I feel I need to talk about it and it seems to me that he acts like everything is ok and that life should go back to the way they were. I think that is why I am confused is all because of him. Just want to know what you all think?
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