I'm a very private person but I need some support. I'm not sure if my husband is cheating or it's just all part of the job as he says. Most of the postings that I have read tell me to listen to my gut feeling/instincts..I guess this is what made me look through his emails/text messages. It made me sick doing this because I value my privacy and I was invading his...a lot of it was vague but never the less inappropriate. One in particular was some women he works with emailing him about her fantasies. He tried telling her that he loved his family and she replied that she loved hers and that this was just for fun and if she could email him with what she would enjoy doing to him. I noticed he deleted a lot of what she sent him but in one email she said that she was glad that he was enjoying it. I saw other women he had poked (all pretty)he says it's for work (music) but my question is why avoid her advances and yet poke others on line. There have been other obvious things like not answering his cell...not coming home when he's supposed to but I dismiss most of this because he is like this in general and not only to me. He tells me flirting is all part of the job and it's just the industry and that he wouldn't take it any further..then why all the secrecy, why even be inappropriate with anybody..help am i overreacting or am i on to something...
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