I don't know where to go with this, each day it seems I get to find out something else I didn't know. The OW actually feels like she was the victim in this entire mess, are you kidding me? How can anyone other than me and my children be the victims here. She knew me, and my children yet chose to chase my hubby anyway, now her excuse is that well you were having problems....yes and THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ADDING TO THEM!!! She was actually going around telling people she was "dating" my husband, as if that's what you call a couple tumbles in the backseat of her car....I keep swinging between rage and despair, my husband has been trying desperately to do whatever he has to to make this work and to try to undo the pain of it all, she won't let go, still was saying she loves him, they could be good together etc...now my 2 oldest children know she was chasing him and saying they were dating, they don't know the whole story and I pray to God that they don't have to know anymore than they already do. My SIL confronted her yesterday, told her to leave him, me, my children and our whole family alone and that she has no use for people like her who would chase a married man, she's not even sorry and is still walking around like what she did was justified and ok.....he is a bartender, and my 2 SIL's and BIL went into the bar last Saturday, and sure enough there she sits across the bar from me....who are these people that could even show their face, and why the hell don't they just slither back under the rock they came from?!!
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