I'ts been 3 months since I found out about the A which last 1 1/2 years, he says it didn't happen often though, which I have to agree because he was always home, when I found out it had been over for a year. But the last 3 years of this marriage has been sexually inadequate or non existent for the most part, from his side that is I have stopped asking or attempting to get it because I am tired of being knocked back. Yesterday I asked him about it again, you did this and then you won't touch me and basically was told he loves me but isn't interesed in me that way, then said but I'm not interested in anyone that way either. H said he would go for councelling to see where it takes us, I have always looked after myself, I think I look good for my age, so what's the problem. All I know is this is a deal breaker because without physical attraction or intimacy we aren't marriage we are roommates, and I don't want that.
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