As I read, I see a lot of folks saying that they stay because of the children. We have no children, so when my H cheated on me, all I had to look at to decide to stay was at him and at myself. Is it harder to stay together when you are not doing it for the children? Is that why I am having such a hard time of getting past the infedelity because in analyzing our relationship and myself, I have discovered so many flaws in myself? My doctor said that I could have been the perfect W, he still would have cheated; his cheating had nothing to do with who I am or what I did. But I can't get over the fact that I was not good enough in some way, otherwise he would not have had the affair. No?
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