Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Hi,
Not sure if I'm in the right place. I'm sure my story is different from most of your's. My dad cheats on my mom. As far as I know the first time was when I was 8, they almost divorced but they went to therapy and worked it out. But then about 3 years ago things started blowing up again, he was cheating on my mom again. He'd without warning and come back a few days later after ignoring our calls and emails, etc, saying he'd never do it again... things seem to blow up every few weeks, Mom will catch him in a lie again and they'll fight and I'll come home one day and his bags are gone and Mom is a total wreck.... things seem to be brewing, I don't know what it is but Mom is nervous and crying.... so, now I'm nervous... do cheaters ever change? Obviously his track record isn't good :(
Not sure if I'm in the right place. I'm sure my story is different from most of your's. My dad cheats on my mom. As far as I know the first time was when I was 8, they almost divorced but they went to therapy and worked it out. But then about 3 years ago things started blowing up again, he was cheating on my mom again. He'd without warning and come back a few days later after ignoring our calls and emails, etc, saying he'd never do it again... things seem to blow up every few weeks, Mom will catch him in a lie again and they'll fight and I'll come home one day and his bags are gone and Mom is a total wreck.... things seem to be brewing, I don't know what it is but Mom is nervous and crying.... so, now I'm nervous... do cheaters ever change? Obviously his track record isn't good :(
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I am so sorry this is happening in your family!
In my opinion, no, cheaters do not change especially if they have the track record your father is showing!
I wish I could tell you differntly. Can you get your mother to join DS.. She is the only one that can do anything to help herself and in the process help you!
I read your profile and see that you have trust issues.. No doubt watching your parents for the nine years plays a really big part in you not trusting. I just wanted to say, sweety that it is best to trust until given a real reason not to trust, then it is time to end it. A relationship is not a healthy relationship if there is no trust as I am sure you have seen for yourself!
If you need someone to talk with I am here for you!
Hugs!
I wish that there was something that I could say to make it all better for you!!
Yes, cheaters can change, but only if they really want to... Looks like your dad isn't happy and doesn't want to change...
I don't know because I am not there...
I know that you want to know why people cheat? There are many reasons but the one that I think is there is a character flaw in the cheater... They are very selfish and usually keep all their problems inside and won't talk about them...
I am saying prayers for you and your mother....
Hang in there and God bless!!
logically I know its not but sometimes I feel like I make it worse because I cause them stress and then they fight more
Hang in there.
Mom told me, Dad had left again and mom was cursing him out, I rolled my eyes, she grabbed my arm and saud "Ya, know when you dad gets married to LAURA, remember he met her before we got divorced" That was over a year and a half ago now but they're still having issues