I am not sure how this works. But I know God sent me here for a reason.
Last week I was released from the hospital after spending almost 2 months there. I am 6 month pregnant with twins and I have been on strict bedrest and in and out of the hospital for months. I was being very careful to make sure I did not go over my cell phone minute while in the hospital because our finances are very very tight. I have not worked in months and I was the primary prvider. My husband took on another job and I because I was in a hospital an hour away I only saw in every couple of weeks. I did not think anything of it. Our marraige hand been strained even before becoming pregnant (I was on Birthcontrol but God had other plans). So when I called my cell phone company to pay the bill I was very surpised to find it was $200 over the normal bill. So I went trew the call log only to discovery my husband had been talking to someone 3 to 4 times a day. I knew it was not me because I was lucky if he would return my calls once a week. So I called the number and Tiffany answered. I hung up. I called my husband and he said that she was a friend but was to appologenic. It took a couple of day but he finally confessed that he had been having a sexual affair. He is saying that he would do anything to have this forgotten about. Because of my pregnancy I am not supposed to get upset. So how do I deal with this without getting upset? I am warn out and I am trying but I am not sure how to do this. He is trying to get into a counselor and we have an appointment set up for marital counseling with a pastor from our church but I keep thinking do I want to do this/