
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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I am not sure how this works. But I know God sent me here for a reason.
Last week I was released from the hospital after spending almost 2 months there. I am 6 month pregnant with twins and I have been on strict bedrest and in and out of the hospital for months. I was being very careful to make sure I did not go over my cell phone minute while in the hospital because our finances are very very tight. I have not worked in months and I was the primary prvider. My husband took on another job and I because I was in a hospital an hour away I only saw in every couple of weeks. I did not think anything of it. Our marraige hand been strained even before becoming pregnant (I was on Birthcontrol but God had other plans). So when I called my cell phone company to pay the bill I was very surpised to find it was $200 over the normal bill. So I went trew the call log only to discovery my husband had been talking to someone 3 to 4 times a day. I knew it was not me because I was lucky if he would return my calls once a week. So I called the number and Tiffany answered. I hung up. I called my husband and he said that she was a friend but was to appologenic. It took a couple of day but he finally confessed that he had been having a sexual affair. He is saying that he would do anything to have this forgotten about. Because of my pregnancy I am not supposed to get upset. So how do I deal with this without getting upset? I am warn out and I am trying but I am not sure how to do this. He is trying to get into a counselor and we have an appointment set up for marital counseling with a pastor from our church but I keep thinking do I want to do this/
Last week I was released from the hospital after spending almost 2 months there. I am 6 month pregnant with twins and I have been on strict bedrest and in and out of the hospital for months. I was being very careful to make sure I did not go over my cell phone minute while in the hospital because our finances are very very tight. I have not worked in months and I was the primary prvider. My husband took on another job and I because I was in a hospital an hour away I only saw in every couple of weeks. I did not think anything of it. Our marraige hand been strained even before becoming pregnant (I was on Birthcontrol but God had other plans). So when I called my cell phone company to pay the bill I was very surpised to find it was $200 over the normal bill. So I went trew the call log only to discovery my husband had been talking to someone 3 to 4 times a day. I knew it was not me because I was lucky if he would return my calls once a week. So I called the number and Tiffany answered. I hung up. I called my husband and he said that she was a friend but was to appologenic. It took a couple of day but he finally confessed that he had been having a sexual affair. He is saying that he would do anything to have this forgotten about. Because of my pregnancy I am not supposed to get upset. So how do I deal with this without getting upset? I am warn out and I am trying but I am not sure how to do this. He is trying to get into a counselor and we have an appointment set up for marital counseling with a pastor from our church but I keep thinking do I want to do this/
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Part of that is his responsability to take CARE of you - financially.
Whatever you do - just think of yourself and your health and condition first. That may mean he ends up in a kind of limbo --- OH WELL - dont let that concern you. Dont feel like you have any obligation to do ANYTHING - to stay with him if he works real hard on it now ---- you dont have to make any decisions. Just decide to take care of yourself and get all the help you can.
You are already in a VERY delicate condition and this is something that makes people physically ill , depressed, and emotionally drained....
SO - just take care of yourself first.
Maybe it would be good for him to start going to counceling - reading publications - finding out as much as he can about affairs and how that effects those who are cheated on --- that way he can be more sensitive to your needs and be proactive about helping you and your relationship...
He needs to do more than usual if he wants to make sure you are OK / Healthy - let alone the question of you staying with him.