
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

Fuzzybunny
Has anyone else come up with stress related health problems because of the emotional rollercoaster of trying to stay together? I always was very healthy - normal.
These days I am coming up with odd (and hopefully temporary) health problems related to severe stress. I do not usually feel all that stressed out - only sometimes very sad because of the obvious.
What's your take - is it better for one's health to make a clean break or to try to wade through the rollercoaster even if it seems clearer the answer is not what we had initially hoped? It has been 4 months since D Day. It was such a shock - but now I am getting used to and OK with the probability of being on my own with the kids. Why the stress problems now?
These days I am coming up with odd (and hopefully temporary) health problems related to severe stress. I do not usually feel all that stressed out - only sometimes very sad because of the obvious.
What's your take - is it better for one's health to make a clean break or to try to wade through the rollercoaster even if it seems clearer the answer is not what we had initially hoped? It has been 4 months since D Day. It was such a shock - but now I am getting used to and OK with the probability of being on my own with the kids. Why the stress problems now?
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I AGREE WITH mOUNTAIN BUT I DID NOT LEAVE EITHER SO DONT KNOW IF I WOULD HAVE GOTTEN WORSE OR NOT,HAD I LEFT.
WHAT IS ODD IS THAT I BEGAN TO DEVELOPE HARD TO DIAGNOSE PROBLEMS WHILE PLANNING MY MARRIAGE TO HIM, 13 YEARS AGO! I EVEN THOUGHT...FOR JUST A MINUTE..COULD THIS BE ..MY BODY TRYING TO TELL ME SOMETHING? NO, OF COURSE NOT! WE ARE SO MUCH IN LOVE AND THIS COULD NOT BE A MISTAKE!
SO MERRILY I WENT ON MY WAY, BUT MY HEALTH KEPT DETERIORATING. A FEW YEARS AGO, I WAS DIAGNOSED WITH IMMUNE DEFICENCY, STRESS RELATED AND SOME OTHER STRESS INDUCED STUFF.
HOW DO I KNOW IT WAS FROM THE HUSBAND? I HAD BEEN A SINGLE MOM IN COLLEGE BEFORE I MET MY HUSBAND...SO IT COULD HAVE BEEN THAT.
SINCE THE DISCLOSURE OF THE AFFAIR. THE ILLNESSES I ALREADY HAD, HAVE GOTTEN MUCH WORSE.
TRYING TO MAKE A DECISION, TO LEAVE SOMEONE YOU HAD EVERY INTENTION OF SPENDING YOUR ENTIRE LIFE WITH, WHO YOU STILL LOVE...OR STAYING, FEELING DISRESPECTED, DISILLUSIONED AND IN EXCRUCIATING PAIN..IS NO CHOICE AT ALL. IT FEELS LIKE TORTURE AND I HAVE BEEN BACK AND FORTH, DAILY, FOR 2 YEARS! I AM CERTAIN THAT DOESNT HELP ONES BODY TO FUNCTION AT IT'S BEST.
That's when I learned to start taking better care of me and letting go over what I had no power over. Thank God for good therapy.
I agree with hope and growth that it can be good to let go. I have a hard time doing that, but what good does that do me right? I wish you all the best. I think if you just keep doing the best you can to take care of yourself that your health can improve.