
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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OK, I\'m new to this. I think from looking this over the best thing if you are interested, is to read my first and only journal entry. Then if it so moves you, let me know what you think I should do, or just comment. I am commited to my Marriage but only if she is.
I know where this guy works, do I confront him? Make sure he knows what he is coming between? It is not just me and my wife. There are kids,(19, 19 and 17) pets,(two dogs and a cat)... a home...a family. Or will that just make matters worse?
I know where this guy works, do I confront him? Make sure he knows what he is coming between? It is not just me and my wife. There are kids,(19, 19 and 17) pets,(two dogs and a cat)... a home...a family. Or will that just make matters worse?
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You know I had no problem finally cutting loose from the other man so I could have a decent life with my husband again. Your wife should be able to do the same. You can't blame the "other" man for what your wife "chose" to do on her own free will.
Lava, I read your journal. It is too bad common sense does not always seem to be prevelent in our legal/justice system.
What I sit and wonder is if he is or has been in the dark as much as I was, does he even know I exist? I want him to know I exist, so he can then decide if this is a relationship he should be in or wants to be in.
He claimes her husband knows she cheates anyway - NO - I didnt know, why assume he does. Also - anything negative she said about her husband --- How could he assume they were true at all. Her husband could be like me - totally clueless - thinking the relationship was fine (every relationship has problems - but for someone to stray... )
I still want to tell him.
My BF also came up with this idea - that her husband would get so mad he would physically attack him or me...
I said - WELL - you should have thought of that before you did it. That is a risk you were willing to take for BOTH of us - why should I be held back from telling him his wife cheats because there is concern for safty NOW?
I dont know.
I realize everyone says you shouldnt do it - contact others involved at all -
but i dont see why not. Why let them get off without having to deal with any problems they helped cause?
You should go about it in a calm, rational and reasonable manner. No threatening, or anything like that...
but why is it so wrong to say " this is the damage you have caused - you have contributed to this damage done to this person / this family..." I dont see why that would be so bad.
YOU KNOW they are in denial about it . Read the posts on this site from cheaters or people who have been with cheaters...they dont think of the other persons spouse/family/partner...at all. They just think of themself.
They should have to confront the fact that the behavior they engage in contributes to the destruction of peoples lives.
But - you should really think about it and be sure it is the best thing for YOU - before you do it.