It has been almost 4 months since my H found out about my affair. We have had our ups and downs but we've worked really hard and things were going well. I had deleted a playlist of songs off my computer that the OM had sent me but hadn't deleted the actual song files. It wasn't intentional, just a mindless error on my part. Today my H is going through all of the songs and is now saying he is done again with our marriage. He can't get passed this and is disgusted with me. In past situations where he has said we are through I have begged for him to not leave and to try and work through this with me. He deserves the best life possible and this time I don't know if I should just back off and let him go because that is what he wants of if I should do everything I can again to save our marriage again. I know I am the reason and I know I am at fault. But I can see that he doesn't have much love left for me. Does anyone have any advice on how I should best support him right now? I don't want to beg him to stay and have him stay for the wrong reasons. What is best for him right now?
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