I am vocusing on me for the fist time in my life ever. I truly believe that your job is you. And that inside relationships it's important to first understand who's coming into the relationship, and not just your partner. You need to understand yourself first. For the first time I am enjoy my own company. Thinking about my needs and desires. Many of us were tought to put ourselves last, and as a consequence we attracted feelings of being unworthy and undeserving. As those feeling lodged within us, we continued to attract more life situations that had us feel more unworthy and not enough. You must change that thinking. "undoubtedly to some, the idea of giving so much love to self will seem very cold, hard and unmerciful. Still this matter may be seen in a different light, when we find that 'looking out for Number One,' as directed by the infinite, is really looking out for Number two and is indeed the only way to permanently benefit number two. Unless you fill yourself up first, you have nothing to give anybody. Therefore it is imperative that you tend to you first. Attend to yur joy first. People are responsible for their own joy. When you tend to your joy and do what makes you feel good, you are a joy to be around and you are a shining example to every child and every person in your life. When you are feeling joy you don't even have to think about giving. It is a nautral overflow. Oftentimes you give others the opportunity to creat your happiness, and many times they fail to creat it the way you want it. Why? Because only one person can be in charge of your joy, your bliss, and that's you. So even your parent, your child, your spouse- they do not have the control to creat your happiness. They simply have the opportunity to share in your happiness.
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