After 10 years of marriage, 2 kids, and trusting my husband, who always professed his dying love to me, I logged on to his email to see if an email I was looking for was in there. What I found would shock the faintest of heart. I can say that the emotions and feelings I had were nothing close to what I've ever experienced and I'm still going through it now. He was writing extremely raunchy, graphic emails of things he'd like to do to a woman he works with and she was sending them right back to him, although not nearly as graphic. I confronted him and he denied it but once he knew I had the proof,the ridiculous stories started. What I finally "think" I believe is that he was looking for attention and he found it in her. I don't think they slept together, although the last couple of emails made me beleive that it would have been any day. What kills me is that he was doing it with me in the next room. I also found out that he really didn't go to the gym on Wed. - he went out to "call" her. He's a cop and she's a dispathcer. He works 12 hour shifts on weekends and I work M-F, take care of the house, the kids, the bills, and everything in between. His only responsibility was to go to work and this is what I get! I say this is cheating and it wouldn't be any worse if he slept with her. I found her and confonted her yesterday and I can't believe this was the object of my husband's affection. I'm all over the place so I'll stop now. Please help!
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