My husband and I have been separated since May 2007 and he has been seeing this OW every since. He says he was bored with our marriage after 37 years and that we had grown apart. That is the reason he gives for having the affair. I have tried in vain to talk to him telling him to come back home and let us try and work things out. He says it is too late because he is deeply involved with this OW. I don't want to give up on our marriage and I am in counseling right now because I am trying to understand and trying to accept his decision to not work on the marriage. This is the first time in our marriage that he has been unfaithful (at least that I know of). Can anyone give me advice about what I am going through and how to deal with all the pain? I am trying to give him the space he needs in hopes that he will come to his senses and recommit to our marriage. He says he still loves me but he thinks loves this OW too. I wish there was something I could do to get him to see that our marriage is worth saving.
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