I just had my first visit with counselor. She said if I want my marriage to work., I should cvalmly tell my husband that I saw a counselor and I am willing to work on the marriage and then ask him what he wants to do. And if he wants to work it out he needs to come to counseling with me and if he doesnt want to go to counseling he is not putting the effort in thats needed.She said it maybe painful for me to be rejected but by acting distant but friendly isnt good because he is my husband and I dont want this to continu him being married to me and not in our house possibly with that ow. She is a christian counselor which I like becasue we prayed together and she said if I dont want to get back with him she will help me move on. I still do love and I would like him to change
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