During a serious talk this morning my wife, who is the one who had the affair, said in an angry tone that I don't trust her. This is not untrue. But she is concerned that I'm showing more interest in our finances. I want to see bank statements and stuff like that. She thinks that I am checking up on her. She was also mad because she found a file that I had been keeping with our son's important documents. She said I am treating her like she is some kind of monster. I told her she is not a monster, but she has been a liar for the past seven and a half years. I also told her that if she elects to get a divorce that only one of us would get these documents. Has anyone dealt with stuff like this. Thank you for your replies.
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