in my last post , I did not explain the the affair has been over for 3 years. I found out about the infidelity 11 months ago. The affair had been over for a little over 2 years when I found out through my H's confession. So if I tell the OW's H then I am telling him about something that has been over for a long time. So my question remains, should I tell the husband of the OW? I especially would like to hear from men whose wive have been unfaithful. How would you feel if you got an email, phone call or letter from some strange woman telling you that your wife had been unfaithful with her husband for 4 years?
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