Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
in my last post , I did not explain the the affair has been over for 3 years. I found out about the infidelity 11 months ago. The affair had been over for a little over 2 years when I found out through my H's confession. So if I tell the OW's H then I am telling him about something that has been over for a long time. So my question remains, should I tell the husband of the OW? I especially would like to hear from men whose wive have been unfaithful. How would you feel if you got an email, phone call or letter from some strange woman telling you that your wife had been unfaithful with her husband for 4 years?
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I think you should tell. He needs to know what his future may be if he is with this person. He deserves to know. In my case ow h believes her that I was involved, so who knows what may happen but I believe it is our duty as people who have been hurt to share with others and maybe prevent it from happening again. I read somewhere that people who get caught are way less likly to do it again. good luck!!
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Yes you should tell. I wish I would have found out when it happened. It was 3 years ago and I know the woman though not well and it still hurts. I doesn't matter when it was, it still hurts the same like it was yesterday. It is harder when time has passed and you are made to look like a fool at your H expense and the other womans. They still talked whenever as if nothing ever happened when we ran into her. Imagine the shame and humiliation. It will come out one day guaranteed.
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