Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
So, my boyfriend talks to other girls online all the time. He searchs on myspace, craigslist, and other sites. Then they swap numbers and text/call each other. I have found naked pics on his phone and his computer. When I ask him about it, he denies meeting up with them. I don't know if he is meeting them or not? I know that he probably has met up with a couple for coffee and the like. He also says very hurtful things about how boring I am so he is with me for now, but he will end up with better. When I asked him about that, he says that he has bad days and wants to be able to vent and have that be private. Should he have privacy that allows him to cheat? I am all for having our own hobbies and space, but isn't what he is doing cheating and being cruel? So, does he still deserve all this "private time"? Or what should I do?
It is so hard cause I know things that he doesn't always know about, so I have these feelings whenever he talks about some places that I know he went with another woman while we were dating. I don't know how to keep from going crazy with all this. I just need some advice.
It is so hard cause I know things that he doesn't always know about, so I have these feelings whenever he talks about some places that I know he went with another woman while we were dating. I don't know how to keep from going crazy with all this. I just need some advice.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I don't care if they date, text, exchange numbers, what ever. You don't need the pain and the agony of this. If he is your boyfriend then he has made some type of a commitment to you. I treat on-line chatting/picture swapping/ texting as cheating. it does not matter if they "didn't do it" what matters is the fact that he did it, with forethought. Private time?? WTF?? YOU Deserve Better!!!
If he says things that hurt you then he does not have your best interest in mind.
Sorry.. people like this really piss me off! They figure they aren't harming anyone.
Get rid of him before he convinces you that his antics are 'normal'!!
There are many people that get wrapped up in to craigslist, myspace , etc. Sometimes it cause addiction problems for them as well. If he thinks this is the way his life should be and would rather have, then an open honest relationship with you, you need to make the decision if you want to put up with it.
If you cant, you already know what you got to do.
Good Luck
There's no need to stick around and take more abuse from him and wait for him to physically cheat on you.
My wife cheated on me while I was out of town with many of my friends knowing about it.
When I got back things were so awkward with her as well as all my friends. When I finally got it out of one of them it was devastating.
If you can avoid being hurt like that by breaking things off now, you will be better off in the long run.
You are at risk from STD's, and what he is doing is emotional abuse. Walk out the door and never look back.
I don't care who you are. Venting THAT is abusive and rude and childish.
And he may or may not have cheated, but thats irrelevant. Hes doing things to hurt you and he doesn't care. He tells you to deal with it. And naked pics? Are you out of your mind?
Wake up. Let him go. Its better to be alone for the right reasons than to be with someone for the wrong ones. You are not leaving yourself open for an opportunity to find the man who will make you his only.