Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
DUMB QUESTION-I OFTEN HEAR THE TERM "LOVE CHILD" USED IN REFERENCE TO AN ILLEGITIMATE CHILD (RESULT OF AN AFFAIR). WHY IS THE CHILD CALLED A LOVE CHILD, AND WHAT IF THERE WAS NO LOVE BETWEEN THE TWO PEOPLE WHO WERE CHEATING, IS THAT CHILD STILL A "LOVE CHILD." THE THOUGHT OF MY HUSBANDS ILLEGITIMATE CHILD BEING CONSIDERED A "LOVE CHILD," IS A BIT DISTURBING(NO OFFENSE TO THE CHILD). YOU WOULD THINK THE CHILDREN THAT A HUSBAND AND WIFE WHO LOVE EACH OTHER CONCEIVE WOULD BE THE "LOVE CHILD." PLEASE HELP ME UNDERSTAND THIS. THANKS
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I always thought the term meant the man and woman made love so they made a love child. I never thought it meant it was conceived out of love. I've honestly not heard the term 'that' often in my life to wonder about it much though.
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THANKS SAPPHIRE-MY HUSBAND IS JUST SO HUNG UP ON THE FACT THAT HE NEVER MADE LOVE TO HER, HE JUST F*%^ED HER, BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO LOVE SOMEONE TO MAKE LOVE TO THEM. I DON'T KNOW I'M JUST WONDERING HOW THAT WORKS.
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Sorry I used that term in my other post to you. I really meant it sarcastically, even though that's not fair to the child. I just think it's nicer than illigitimate and I would never call a child born from this type of relationship a bastard. Am I overthinking or over-explaining? :)
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OK. I'm losing my mind. In your post "what to do", I originally referred to my friends husband's extra-marital children as "love child" but before I posted, I thought better of it b/c like you, I think that term really doesn't really apply. I'm gonna go have me a glass of wine and hopefully I will find some clarity. LOL
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BETRAYEDASWELL-YOU ARE GREAT-I DID GET THIS FROM THE POST YOU RESPONDED TO, BUT I HAVE HEARD IT BEFORE AND WAS JUST WONDERING HOW PEOPLE REALLY FELT ABOUT IT AND HOW OTHERS DESCRIBED IT. BY THE WAY HAVE A GLASS FOR ME TOO, IT'S BEEN A LONG AND CRAZY DAY-POTTY TRAINING MY 2 YEAR OLD.LOL
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