Well, the latest saga is that my dh lost his job and so did the other woman! I am sad and happy about it and I try not to be too happy around him. His career is suffering and so is he. The little B####, who could have been our daughter by the way, is still being protected by him. He wrote her a recommendation letter. He says it is over and I need to move on. Easy for him to say! It has been 7months and I still am angry and hurt. Some days are better than others. I would like to write his VP and thank her. I know it took this long so the ow could not sue and hubby needed to be phased out. He was given an award 2yrs in a row for his work. Now they say his region was dissolved and they had no where for him to go. He should have been moved and the last man hired should have gone but under the circumstances I guess the VP knew what she was doing and I applaud her for her tact and profesionalism in the matter. I hope she never goes through or has gone through anything like this but, part of me hopes she is reading this. Hubby has a small business that he is now persuing and still is looking in the corp. world for a position, but a 50 yr old who has toped out the pay scale in his career, is a hard hire in any field and we both know that. The whole situation is sad. Our 26yr marriage is now shakey at best and he lost his job. I know that it is the price he was ment to pay. I do believe Karma is a wonderful thing! But now how do I act?? I truely love this man. I know I need to forgive and forget and let it go but now I am having trouble sleeping AGAIN! I keep thinking she is on the cell phone trying to contact him. He says no, but he won't let me see the bill so I can check. He says I need to trust him. I feel like a door mat sometimes. If I speak up he is all over me. If I say nothing he seems happy but he is not affectionet and the relationship is so strained. The counslor says that this is normal that I should expect him to be angry with me since he only told the VP because I said I was going to call her. Any advice on how to hande this would be GREAT!