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Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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Losing everything again

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I can't believe I'm saying it, but even after 8 years of his affairs and his new baby, our marriage is better. I hide my pain well but I am glad we stayed married (I think). His child support is so high that we've already lost one home and now they've raised it even higher ($365 a week) which is his entire paycheck. I am so bitter that my kids have no clothes, and I can't provide a christmas at all for them and now our home is in jeopardy again. We are going to court in 2 weeks to try to modify it but the attourney general is involved and we have no money for a lawyer so he risks jail again because he can't pay all they want and is $4,300 behind already and it gets worse every week. To see my 16 year old son cry because we had to leave our family due to losing our home and are facing that again now, is breaking my heart. There is no help and my will to carry on is almost completely gone.
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To any cheater who has ever felt they have been treated harshly I hope you read this post and the tears come to you as they did to me.

This is the reality.. This is how it can turn out. Infidelity can destroy lives.

jrcy, please hang on hun. I don't know what to say other than I will muster every prayer I got in me and plead that you get some relief.

You are not alone tonight as you are in my thoughts and in my heart tonight. God how I wish I could do more for you. God bless you dear, please don't give up!
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I dont remember the name but there are groups of lawyers and lay people who can help absent father's with unfair child support and other issues. Just do a search under child support and look for father's issues.

I think they may have a probono attorney, may be too late for this particular hearing but may not.
good Luck
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